I also had a Birthday celebration once!

Riza is a 4 yr old girl living next door to our flat.She enjoys a lot of freedom in our house and spends most of her time with my children.Her mother is busy with her PG studies and her father is a doctor working in a far away place.Her only solace is her grandmother who is also busy with house-hold activities.Riza is a keen observer and is willing to help everybody in the house.I used to see her rarely only during my leave,Gradually she has admitted me also in her friends' circle.Sometimes she sings nursery rhymes for me.Once my birthday fell on my leave period.I used to remember my bday only when my children used to remind me.Riza monitored my children speaking about my birthday falling on dec 20 and everybody left the discussion there itself.When i reached home on dec 20,i saw a lot of balloons decorated in our drawing room .I thought it was Riza's birthday which is being celebrated in our house. To my surprise everyone wished me birthday, for the first time in my life at the age of 54! i enquired who was behind this.It was Riza mol's plan to celebrate my birthday....i stood agape for a moment .Then i realized that the young ones do not differentiate people or space.Their mind get polluted as they grow due to various influences!

An aeroplane with 3500 passenger

As usual,i was waiting in the railway station for going to airport for night duty.While waiting for train it is interesting to hear the conversation by others sittiing near to you.A number of people who were working abroad used to travel by train to Trivandrum.Once in 2002 i heard a person telling his friends about his experiences during his stay in dubai,He said in India only smaller planes with a max 400 or 500 passengers are landing wheres in Dubai normally all planes hav tleast 3000-3500 passengers.His friend was eagerly listening.In 2002,the biggest plane in the world could accommodate a maximum of 650 people.An aircraft with 3500 passengers should have a minimum of 20-25 engines,3-4 cockpits and a runway 5 times longer and stronger,and an airport which is 10 times larger or costlier to accommodate such an aircraft!For exaggeration also there should be a limit!

BOSS MANAGEMENT-tHE iNDIAN sTYLE

Boss management is an art and science.Though I did Master's degree in management 22 years before,still im experimenting new techniques of boss management for effective handling of boss.This is based on the concept of Boss favour dynamics (BFD).boss management is a bottom to top management process while all other management processes are from top to bottom.

The fundamental scale in boss management is that you should totally forget the term"NO sir" and only "yes sir should be used throughout ur career.If u hav a better idea,do not tell openly to ur boss;tell him personally so that on a later stage he will declare your idea as his own!If u are a speaker in a function after ur boss ,always use the term,"as my boss stated"when boss does something wrong or unusual ,do not comment or criticize.If u r in a meeting along with ur boss do not open ur mouth.tell ur boss to project ur ideas.but if he makes a blunder,immediately explain with all ur intelligence that what the boss meant was something different!!!If u r presenting a report prepared by you,add a point that it was done with the idea of and direction by the boss and see that the report is signed by ur boss even if he insists ur signature.Even for your slightest mistake never hesitate to say "sorry sir" esp in front of others!

whenever boss delivers lectures on useless or irrelevant subjects or when he demands you to do ineffective tasks ,remember to use "yes sir",If u get bored use only "sir" instead of "yes sir"...

when ur boss is asked to prepare an URGENT /SPECIAL TASK/REPORT,you should sit overnight ,complete and submit to him so that he will add one or two words of nonsense in between before his signature..You appreciate his correction immediately.!!!

Mostly he will never appreciate ur work..But by mistake if he does so,humbly tell him that it was a part of ur routine work,If u meet him outside his office do not forget to give him one more salute!

If he is showing some soft corner to ladies or others,pretend that you have not seen it.Do not wear costlier clothes or use costlier vehicles than that of boss..If he invites u to a party ,at any cost you should attend it and see that you only pay the BILL!but when he offers frequent teas/snacks during office time at the cost of office money ,do not refuse even if u r a diabetic or cholestrol patient!!These are some of the tips only;and can be supplemented based on Boss's attitude...

In most of the Indian Govt Departments/PSU It will take a few centuries to bring in the benefits of Human resource Management or even the concept of Modern management.Once it is done India can prosper a lot..

For most people 'pleasing the boss' is still the order of the day!!

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MALNUTRITION DURING SCHOOLING,INDIGESTION AND DIARRHOEA DURING HIGHER STUDIES

Our education provides only very light food for the school students upto 10th std.Most of the stuff are like much diluted milk that contains nothing much for absorption. eg. history,geography,civics..how many learn lessons out of these?Rice,wheat,Dal(science,social science,languages) etc.. are being given in small doses.Though a lot of quality foods and medicines are available in the market,our educational doctors still prefer antacids and vicks tablets for decades now(small elements of modern subjects) For physical fitness,we conduct monthly or annual competitions,just like conducting urine and blood tests for health.Is there any continous or regular programmes for fitness in school life?

During plus one and plus two the whole situation change.Suddenly the students are given rich food like' rotti made of maida',pure ghee and pure milk.(modern subjects)Most of the rottis are not even cooked properly as our teachers in plus one and plus two are managing cooking somehow.Most of the students fall ill due to indigestion,dysentry or diarrhoea.A few survive because of external support-Tuitions

After 12th comes the ladder test.(Entrance tests)For some there are two ladder tests.For the professional course one should be properly trained to climb up the ladders.Most of them fall down along with the ladder.Some go for one year ladder training (coaching) and climb up successfully!

The problem lies with the' doctors'-educational experts who prescribe food and medicine.The students should be given food of all kinds( syllabus)from L.K.G to tenth std.in proper quantities(eg. elements of science and tech,engineering,medicine,economics,social science,management,health and hygiene,banking, business etc..)Such an education system will facilitate smooth transition in their studies,which will not create any stomach troubles and thereby a better health to our educational system...

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Log in to My Cyber Space

It is time where the youngsters live in a high tech environment. Any one who does not appear in facebook or twitter is treated by the youngsters as an old timer, however smart he is.But infact why should you think that blog and twitter should be beyond your normal way of life? Nothing should elude you. In the face of my children's remarks finally I thought of my own blog ( though initially designed by them). After all nothing is beyond one's capability. Most of the people think that age is a deterrent factor which acts as a road block to achievements. This belief is shared by most of the elders as a convenience from hardwork, enthusiasm etc.. Everybody will have a lot to tell others. Let them also speak. Finally I have also decided to start my own blog so that I can talk whatever I feel like.